Shhh... Some secrets may need keeping
The anxiety that comes with some secrets could be your mind's way of telling you to divulge it, an expert says. Mental health professionals can help you work through your secrets When it comes to extramarital affairs, telling your spouse isn't always best Weigh the consequences of telling someone your secrets before you divulge them (CNN) -- Strangers often trust Edward with their secrets, whether it be on planes or walking down the street. He even became a confidant in one place that he doesn't want most people to know he spent time: prison. Edward's biggest secret is that he is a convicted felon, having been arrested twice for driving under the influence of alcohol. The second time, he spent 90 days behind bars contemplating his life. Those reflections helped him make better life choices in the 10 years that have gone by since, he says.
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Telling your secret may make you feel better, experts say. But in some cases, weigh the decision carefully before unburdening yourself, as not all secrets need to be told.
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